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Pamela Rodriguez's avatar

"I sit in a bar reading a book, I worry that I look like I’m cosplaying aloneness, the words I read are Sanskrit, they mean nothing. I order a cocktail called Prayers of the Soulless. I am cosplaying aloneness." I think about this often and you put it into words so clearly. And then I think "Well, am I cosplaying aloneness if I'm not recording myself "being alone" in a bar for Tiktok or Instagram?" and it makes it feel a little less like cosplaying, haha. I love being alone in the ways you've described, and I love the way you've written about your experience with being alone. Words are failing me a bit right now, but I sincerely appreciated this post. Such a lovely read for today. Thanks for sharing, Isabelle! ♥

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Tim Boyle's avatar

I found that the time you are somewhere is not as important as the attitude you adopt when you are someone new and alone. I knew people who were in Japan for 6 months or more and wouldn't have got out of their time there what you would have experienced in two weeks.

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